9 Ways to Spot a Narcissist

9 Ways to Spot a Narcissist

1. How to Spot a Narcissistic Personality Disorder:

A man seeing himself in the mirror as a king. Self centeredness.

What exactly is a narcissist personality disorder? The Diagnostic and Statistical manual of mental disorders lists it as a personality disorder and that there are nine signs to look for but what exactly is a narcissist?

It is a person with a narcissistic personality disorder can often come across as very charming and charismatic people, who can be very persuasive and manipulative with their behavior.

They are often high-status people and never seem to want to develop trust in others.

A narcissist lacks empathy and has a sense of entitlement. They often don’t care about others’ feelings or opinions.

The term narcissist may bring to mind someone who is very self-confident and have an inflated sense of their importance.

They may also be very sensitive to criticism and may react angrily or aggressively when criticized and sometimes try to make it seem like it’s someone else’s fault.

Narcissists may also be very controlling and may try to control others by making them feel inferior or by manipulating them.

2. The Signs of a Narcissist:

An image showing someone being selfish. Low self-esteem.

Self Importance

What are some narcissistic traits you might ask? It is not easy to spot a narcissist.

However, a true Narcissist will display multiple symptoms with their behavior which can start from early adulthood.

Narcissists may be very self-centered and have a lack of empathy.

They may only care about themselves and their own needs as well as what benefits them and helps them for their gain.

While there are some obvious signs some people might just have some narcissistic traits and not a narcissistic personality disorder.

For example, a person who can lack empathy is a common sign of narcissism.

But someone who constantly wants attention may just have an excessive need to be given attention.

So you might have to look for more like a history of lying or trying to manipulate people.

It is important not to label someone before you get to know them fully.

Their behavior can reflect a sense of self-importance about themself where they focus on the good stuff they do and have excessive admiration for it.

If they have a very high sense of self-importance and are seeing attention and constant validation then they probably have pathological narcissism.

They may be very insensitive to the needs of others and may only care about their success and happiness.

Selfish people standing on the word ego. Self importance preoccupation.


Narcissists may also be very arrogant, have self-esteem through the roof, and may have a sense of entitlement.

They may believe that they are better than others and may expect others to treat them accordingly.

Narcissists’ behavior may also be very manipulative and may use others to get what they want.

3. The Effects of Narcissism:

The effects of narcissism can be very damaging to both the narcissist and the people around them.

They can often experience dissociation from people, problems, things, and themselves.

Narcissists can be very difficult to deal with and can often make the people around them feel inferior, worthless, and unloved.

Narcissists can also be very abusive and can often mistreat the people around them.

The effects of narcissism can often lead to problems in relationships, work, and school.

4. How to Deal With a Narcissist:

Dealing with a narcissist can be challenging.

It is important to remember that narcissists are often very charming and persuasive people, and they may try to manipulate you to get favorable treatment.

Be assertive and stand up for yourself when dealing with a narcissist.

Set boundaries with a narcissist and make sure that you are not being taken advantage of.

5. How to Heal From Narcissistic Abuse:

Have you been the victim of narcissistic abuse, it is important to seek professional help.

Narcissistic abuse can be very damaging and can often lead to problems such as anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

If you have been the victim of narcissistic abuse, it is important to get help from a therapist or counselor who can help you heal and recover from the damage that has been done.

6. The dangers of narcissism:

A selfish man keeping the umbrella to himself in the rain. They can feel grandiose sense of unlimited success

Narcissism can be very dangerous and can often lead to problems such as abuse, violence, and even suicide.

If you are in a relationship with a narcissist or it is a family member, it is important to get help from a professional.

Should I Consider Leaving Them?

If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, it is also important to be aware of the signs of abuse and to get out of the relationship if you are being abused.

A man standing on another man and lifting a crown. A lot more males in the general population are narcissits then women.

Narcissists’ love only extends to you in romantic relationships as long as you are idolizing and admiration for them which is wrong and not the way it should be in a relationship, it should be a two-way street which is ideal love.

A Narcissist takes advantage of others, especially those who are willing to bend over backward for them to meet their emotional needs.

If you don’t do what they want they will then use manipulation tactics to make you feel guilty so they can get their special treatment.

So they can constantly talk about their successes, influence, or looks.

They’ll tell you that they deserve special treatment and might even envy their partners when they get more attention than them.

7. Can Narcissistic Personality Disorders be Treated?

A picture of the human head being treated as a puzzle. Arrogant and haughty behaviors can be treated.

The short answer is yes narcissistic personality disorder can be treated but it takes a lot of patience and time to recover from the life-limiting illness.

For a while, you will still feel the extreme need to discuss your success, power, and so on at great lengths.

Does Talking to a Doctor or a Therapist Help?

Talking to a mental health professional can help you become less self-absorbed as well as show feelings of empathy towards another person.

They will ask you questions like why you feel entitled to be treated a certain way so they can figure out your behaviors.

8. Does Having a Clinical Diagnosis Help?

You can talk to a clinical health psychology practice but you would have to display quite a few traits to be diagnosed as a narcissist.

For example, just having a lack of empathy toward another person wouldn’t be enough.

You can discuss your feelings and symptoms with a mental health professional and how they might be impacting your relationships with people.

Like if you have the constant urge to achieve more power or to get constant admiration from a person.

9. Summary on Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

A man finding the way to his goal blocked by his own ego. Your own ego can stop you from achieving your own goals in life.

Hopefully what has been said here helps you to notice the traits in a person who has narcissism and how to handle it if you have a romantic relationship with a narcissist.

Make sure you aren’t being manipulated by someone for their own gain.

If you would like some treatment for your disorder you should consider this app here for your issues.

However, if that doesn’t help you might want to consider trying a one-to-one therapy session.


Matt Hudson

I’m Matt Hudson and over the last 30 years I’ve helped thousands of people “Get Well Again Naturally” without the aid of medication. My Natural approach has worked for over 100 different ailments, fears, phobias, illnesses and dis-eases.

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