Trust Issues

Trust issues can create poor quality relationships, as they impact your ability to commit.

The meaning of trust is to believe without doubt, in someone or something.

Distrust means that you doubt in someone or something.

Trust in relationships means that no matter what situation you or your partner are in, you can always trust that you’ll do the right thing to support each other.

A relationship without trust is a difficult relationship at best. This is because your mind will be constantly second guessing anything your partner does or says.

Trust issues are born out of negative experiences where trust has previously been broken. A negative emotional memory image (EMI) is created and stored in the minds eye. Whenever anything similar to the original situation occurs, your view is tainted. You are not seeing your current partner, you are replaying your past with the associated feelings.

How to learn to trust again means removing the negative emotional memory image (EMI) that was created at the point of the previous betrayal. This EMI is the lens through which you will continually view people and with it comes mistrust. Clearing the EMI allows you to see the world with real eyes and that’s why people often say I didn’t you and then I realised (real eyes) I was wrong. The perception changes and life moves on.

How to save a marriage is as easy as deciding where you want to go on holiday. Are you both happy with the choice or do you want to go to different destinations? Do you like the beach but your partner likes the pool, does it feel like you’re always compromising? If you can both sit down and get clear with where you see yourselves in 10 or 20 years time, then you’ll soon know if that’s the holiday destination for you. Or are you travelling in opposite directions?

The best way to get over trust issues is not to ‘try’. Trust means commitment, you can’t try commitment, you either commit or you don’t. Trust issues may not be relevant in this current relationship, you may be projecting issues for a former relationship onto your present amazing partner. The negative emotional memory images that you hold inside your mind about untrustworthy partners need to be removed. Hypnosis can help with this.

Trust issues are created from a breakdown in trust. The hurt and emotional upset caused by the original break in trust creates a negative emotional memory image (EMI). This EMI is then the lens from which you view all potential relationships. Clearing the EMI will allow you to let go of your past, commit to a new relationship and a future that has yet to be written.

Hypnotherapy for trust issues is an excellent idea. The negative emotional memory image (EMI) that is created when trust is broken, sits in the subconscious mind. Hypnotherapy works directly with the subconscious mind and can clear the EMI, ridding you of your trust issues.

People with trust issues find it very difficult to spend time on their own as they believe their partner is busy having fun elsewhere without them! I once asked a client who was clearly very unhappy in her relationship, why she wouldn’t just leave? She replied, “I would rather he was miserable with me than see him happy with somebody else.” This lady wasn’t able to trust her own judgement that she could be happy on her own or in a new relationship. Learning to trust in yourself is a huge step towards becoming an independent person, until you find this you will continue to be co-dependent with another. Trust can be given, received and also broken, realising that the latter can only be as disappointing as to the degree of energy you give it… 

This audio production is designed to give you ‘real eyes’ so that you may ‘realise’ that trust begins and ends with you. By clearing negatively charged Emotional Memory Images from your external screen, your mind and body are able to adapt to the present moment, freeing you of the mental clutter that prevents your brain from resting, calmly, gently and at ease. This audio is your own personal 1 to 1 session with Matt and is always available at your convenience.

Matt’s calming, assuring voice gently guides both your conscious mind and unconscious mind towards transformation through the left and right ear respectively. By tapping into the body’s psychoneuroimmunilogical mechanisms – the link between the mind, nervous system and physical wellbeing – this audio helps your brain to improve its cognitive processing ability so your mind will be free to run brighter, colourful movies where you can reconnect all of your desires, experiencing them fully, through thought into deeply relaxing dreams.

For best results, listen to this audio download first thing in the morning or during the day, every day for 4 weeks. Ensure you’re free from interruptions and distractions when listening. Download now to start building up your learning power and transform your current thoughts into powerful drivers for change.

This audio is a .MP3 file, compatible with smartphones, tablets, PC’s and other electronic devices.

Audio length: 30 minutes.